Tips for Families of Children With Cochlear Implants
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People
love holidays! Adults busily prepare for the festivities while children are
abuzz with excitement. Traditions are passed down as family and friends
gather. Below are suggestions so you can enjoy the HOLIDAYS and focus on your
child’s listening and spoken language.
Holidays are about listening
to joyous
music, lively conversations and spending time with family and friends. Encourage your child to be the Holiday Host and greet
visitors and take their coats. This will boost your child’s confidence while
giving him a chance to talk face to face in a quiet setting. Role-play upcoming holiday situations and practice good
listening strategies. Create a secret a signal so your child can notify you when
he is having a difficult time hearing. Keep the holiday music off or at a low volume,
as your child is likely not the only one bothered by clatter and background
music.
Organize an email and send
it your family and friends before you gather for the holidays. Write a quick
update about your child’s listening and spoken language progress and his cochlear
implant technology. Dealing with this before the holidays will allow you to spend
time celebrating rather than answering questions of well meaning friends and
family.
Large family dinners are noisy so
plan accordingly. One suggestion is ensuring your child
knows the topic of the conversation. Consider using “conversation starter cards” around the table which are
always fun. Also, have someone special seated next to your child who can repeat
a joke or summarize a story if your child mishears.
Include
your child
in the holiday preparations and focus on vocabulary that is often specific to the
season. What is mistletoe? A menorah? The Nutcracker? A manger? A New Year's resolution? Spend time
reading holiday stories, cooking traditional foods and learning the words to
holiday songs. You child can create
decorations to hang around your home and tell guests about them when they visit.
Devices. Keep your child’s
CI accessories charged and ready to use. Role-play so your child is comfortable
asking others to wear the FM, Roger system or use their ComPilot and can explain
how it helps him hear. At the dining table
place the accessory mic in the middle or concealed in the centerpiece. If you attend
a holiday performance or a faith-based service, contact the venue to request extra amplification such as a microphone, a
hearing loop and captions. Another important
device is your phone’s camera. Snap photos to include in your child’s Listening
and Spoken Language Experience Book.
Arrange seating with your
child’s hearing in mind. Encourage your child to choose a good seat for hearing
at dinner and for the gift exchange. Is there a seat away from the bustling kitchen,
or the room when the teenagers are playing video games? When opening gifts, suggest
sitting in a circle so your child can both listen and watch.
Your traditions are an important
way to expand your child’s listening and spoken language skills. If gift giving
is your tradition, choose presents that will provide hours of creative play and
stimulate conversation. Most of your child’s memories will be about people, not
presents.
Simplify.
Ask your child what traditions he feels are most important. You may be
surprised by his reply. Consider skipping old traditions that have lost appeal
or that your family has outgrown. Time spent together rather than on activities
will be most remembered. Keep a Joy Journal to jot down moments of triumphs,
laughter, inspiration and the “hearing” miracles you enjoy over the holidays.